At the beginning of March, Vincent noticed that his left eye would not close normally. Nothing to worry, really, since he had caught a tennis ball in his eye a few days before.
On March 4th, at the end of the day, Mom noticed that Vincent's mouth was crooked... weird..
On March 5th, the family leaves for the spring break: one week of skiing at "Le Valinouët", a ski resort near Chicoutimi, in the Saguenay region of Québec. On the way, while listening to his brother's i-Pod, Vincent realises that he cannot hear from his left ear... weird...
In Chicoutimi, Vincent has a go at snowboarding and exhausts himself. He spends the afternoon sleeping. His face slowly becomes more assymetrical. This is getting more and more worrying. We decide to look for a solution: off to the emergency room at the Chicoutimi hospital. Diagnosis: Bell's palsy, a benign problem that should resolve withing 1 month. Phew! It's not that bad. We'll have to follow up at Ste-Justine's hospital in Montreal when we come back from vacation.
The week following our return, Vincent and Mom spend a day at the ENT at Ste-Justine. The doctor doesn't like what he sees. Bell's palsy should not affect the ear. We go through hearing tests, a CT scan. At the end of the day, a new doctor walks in the examining room: an oncologist.
The oncologist talks of a tumor on the brain stem, MRI's, medicines... Cranial nerves V, VI, VII and VIII are affected.
Following the MRI, we meet a neuro-surgeon from Ste-Justine. He explains that, as opposed to the majority of brain stem tumors, Vincent's tumor can be operated on. (Good news??) It is therefore possible to get a piece of it for analysis. After thinking about it, we decide to go ahead with the operation.
Vincent is immediately put on Decadron, steroïdes with horrible side effects: loss of sleep, increased appetite, heartburn, swelling of face, joint pains, slowed wound healing,... and the list goes on and on...
The surgery is scheduled for April 5th 2007. However, Ste-Justine has administrative problems, and there are not enough nurses at the Intensive Care Unit to take care of Vincent after the operation. It is therefore delayed for one week.
On the morning of the operation, after an agonising wait, the neuro-surgeon who is late by 30 mins, comes to tell us that there is only 1 space available at the ICU , and Vincent will get it. So after a final MRI, the surgery will take place.
Therefore, on April 12th 2007, at 10:00AM, after hearbreaking goodbyes, Vincent leaves for the OR. Immediately after getting in the room, the anasthetist puts Vincent to sleep with gas. For the following 2 hours, nurses, technicians and OR personnel work to position Vincent for the operation. He will need to be lying on his stomach with his head tilted forward. Since the procedure is taking most of the day, Vincent has to be positionned properly to avoid causing any him any injuries. For the surgery, he will be intubated, have a urinary catheter, venal acceses, artherial pressure monitoring, electrodes for heart monitoring, and the back of his head will be shaved off completely. Dr Mercier, the neuro-surgeon, starts to operate at 12:00hre.
The longest day ... Judith, who has come for moral support, Mom and Dad wait. By 5:30PM, Dad goes to get some news. The doctor has started to close up, there is about 90mins left to the procedure.
As predicted, the doctor comes to get us at 7:00PM. Vincent is fine. He is now extubated, has opened his eyes. Everything went well. The doctor has managed to take out aboug 50% of the tumor. Preliminary report: Pilomyxoid astrocytoma. To be confirmed by the pathologist with more tests.
What a relief! Vincent is transferred to the ICU. Only Mom and Dad can see him. He is awake! He has trouble speaking, his mouth all pasty from the anasthetic gas. A true soldier!!! Doesn't complain. Mom pulls a chair, and starts a night of recovery. Vincent wakes up every now and then, Mom is close by, monitoring everything, making sure all is normal... if it's the only reason that Mom got her nursing degree, it was well worth the efforts...
Vincent impresses everyone in the ICU. The following morning, he starts to drink. Tubes are slowly coming out. There is no way he is going to urinate in that bottle...Off to the toilet he decides to go! And that's enough to convince everyone that, after 12 hres in the ICU (instead of the predicted 48hres) Vincent can move to his 5th floor private hospital room.
Again, Vincent impresses all the nurses. He is so strong, such determination, what a quick recovery. He is our best yet!!! Vincent is beaming with pride! After a week of recovery in the hospital, Vincent leaves to go home. Hurray! the whole family is reunited. Everyone is happy to be together, not to mention Vincent who will finally sleep in his own bed!!!
Starts the recovery periode at home. The neurological symptoms are not improving, even though Vincent is doing quite well. Two weeks after surgery, we meet with the neuro-surgeon. The same diagnosis: Pilomyxoid astrocytoma, an atypical benign tumor that has an unpredictable behavior. Regardless, its localtion stays a problem. Radiotherapy is recommended to shrink it as much as possible.
Options, which are few, are considered. Radiotherapy is very risky, with potential horrible side effects. However, the risks from tumor growth are worse. One month after the operation, a new MRI is done: the tumor has grown. We have no choice: radiotherapy starts on Wednesday 16th May 2007. There will be 30 sessions in all.
Saturday, May 26, 2007
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Vincent,
As I was reading your story I was moved to tears. I had no idea that you were going through all of this. I was impressed to hear of how brave you are being in the hospital you always were totally focused on achieveing your goals whether they be small things or big things. You will beat this Vincent it is not in your nature to give up. I will check out your website regually for updates and email you to. LOTS OF LOVE and good thoughts.
Mrs Blackburn
Hey Vinecnt,
I remember you as smiling and hard working pupil at Foremarke. I m proud to see what a real fighter you are. I send you all my prayers and thoughts.
Mademoiselle Cisse
Dear Vincent
This is Mr Brewster, from Foremarke. I thought I would drop you a line to say on behalf of everyone here how sorry we are to hear your news.
However, I am proud of your good heart and determination to overcome the difficulties you face, and I know that the other people you remember hear will feel the same way.
This Summer Mrs Brewster and I will be doing something that you and your family did a little while ago - we are moving to another country to work and we look forward to the challenges and new adventures ahead of us - although we're sorry to leave Foremarke. We are going to work in Prague, in the Czech Republic. I will be principal of the English International School www.eisp.cz
Wishing you every blessing in the days ahead,
Mr Brewster
Vincent,
I am very sorry to read what you have been going through. I must say you are a very brave boy who is obviously very strong, your family must be extremely proud of you. It sounds like the doctors are doing a fantastic job too and I am sure they will have you feeling much better soon.
Try to keep on smiling, stay strong. I will be thinking of you, as will many of us here at Foremarke, and I will follow your recovery. Wishing you all the best and sending you lots of positive thoughts.
Miss Parkin (now Mrs Hobson!!)
Hi Vincent,
We never met in the maths classroom - you were too young to be taught by an old man like me - but I remember you and your family from your time at Foremarke.
Things are obviously tough for you at the moment but keep up the fight and you'll soon be back on the snowboard (going far too fast for mum and dad's liking!)
Everybody at Foremarke is thinking of you.
Very best wishes,
Paul Martin & family
Hi there Vincent,
We were so very sorry to hear about your tumor. Our thoughts are with you at this time. Try to stay positive throughout your forthcoming treatments. You have been so very brave so far.
Joe sends special wishes to you too.
With our love to you and your family.
The Pedericks xxxx
Hi Vincent, this is your old buddy from England, Callum. I have just read your story and I can't believe what a bad time you are having. I know how tough you are though and I know you will get through this. I have missed you since you left. My mum and dad are coming over next weekend to look at a house just outside Montreal for us to use in the holidays. That would mean that we could see each other and you could take me to a good ice hockey game, not like the Nottingham Panthers eh! Didn't we have a good time at Foremark together? I still keep in touch with Matt Barker, and Sam Boyle occasionally. Do you remember the day we went to American Adventure with Lucas? I banged my nose on the Water Slide! I will write again tomorrow because I get home from school at just after 4.00pm, 11.00am your time I think. Take care Vincent and keep your chin up. Love Callum
PS Lauren and Dylan say hello to you and all your family too.
Hello Vincent
You don't know us - we are Mrs Blackburn's parents.
Mrs Blackburn told us about the nasty things that have been happening to you - and we have had a look at your website.
We are very sorry that you have been having such a bad time and hope that your treatment brings about an improvement soon.
Do you follow the fortunes of the French rugby team?
Although they have just taken a bit of a hammering from the All Blacks (as everyone does!) their No 8, Sebastian Chabal is a star!
http://www.salesharks.com/player_info?id=46
Hope that link works - if not try putting his name in Google.
Very best wishes
Mr & Mrs Morgan
hey buddy It's Cal again. you are one brave kid buddy, I am thinking about you every day since I heard the news, all the best, every blessing in my heart etc. We will have a big party for you when you're better. blog again tomorrow mate.
Cal
Hi Vincent this is Eileen, Callum's mum. Callum asked me to come and have a word. Callum fell in the playground at school on Tuesday afternoon and broke his leg. I know you won't be surprised because I am sure you can remember how clumsy he is! He has a cast on his leg and he is hobbling around on crutches for short distances and he has a wheelchair if we have to go any distance. He is not managing the crutches very well. When he puts his weight on them he falls over! I think his other leg is at great risk! I cannot carry Callum. He is too big but his Dad will be home tomorrow and has promised he will carry Callum upstairs so that he can get on the computer to you. Because of Callums injury Phil and I have had to cancel our trip to Montreal this weekend. We are going to come later in the summer so I hope that we will have more time to arrange to visit you and your family. Because they are on holiday we may even bring Callum Lauren and Dylan. Dylan is a big boy now. He goes to school full time. He is just like Callum. Not good for him at all! I hope your treatments are not too uncomfortable. I bet your mum is taking really good care of you. With all our love, Eileen xx
Hi Vincent
This is Alan Roe here from Derby
I have only met you a couple of times, but your Dad always said many good things about you. And by the way your Dad is a very good friend of mine.
I want you to know that me, my wife Wendy and all your Dad's good friends from Bombardier in Derby are rooting for you 100%. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND KEEP FIGHTING!
Just to let you know, today (Sunday) Wendy and I went out on a bike ride through Burnaston, quite near to your old house, it was a beatiful day.
Will keep in touch, cheers
Hey Vince,
It's Callum, again. as my mum has probably told you I am in a cast and doesn't it suck being in a wheelchair!!!!! On tuesday in the playground I was playing with my friends( Yes, I do have friends) and I stepped to catch a ball and my leg broke like that. I have been off school since and am dead bored. I'd prefer going to school than having a broken leg. keep goin buddy. hope to see you better soon.
Cal
Vince I am now walking again on a different cast. I hope you get back on your feet too, soon. I can't imagine what you are going through. it must be hell. am at friends for sleepover tomorrow so I will blogg over the weekend. Even though you were a pest, you were a dang good friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All the best.
Cal
Vince.
Hey Buddy things are going quite well over at my end but hey, your'e almost there too. you were a class friend to have and I hope I will see you soon. My parents are close to buying a house in Canada for holidays. if we get it will you please teach me to snowboard because frankly I probably suck. keep goin'
Csl
Hey Vince
In not very long I am going to Loughborough Grammar School and in my class I met a kid that looked like you, had your peronality and wasn't annoying in any way. A MIRACLE.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but I still like you more, actually for the annoyingness. will blog again soon. am in school production of west side story which is Romeo and Julliette in new york and I am a policeman who breaks up all hte fights. see ya round.
Cal
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